mum anounced last night when i went to take her her vanilla (long story) that we have to, the boyf and i, go to dinner at hers and dads on sunday as we have to plan the wedding.
my wedding is in 15 months. 15!
and we have to:-
plan menus
plan cars
plan if we're staying over
plan the evening do
plan dresses
plan seating (already done)
yada yada yada
is 15 months away.
the boyf, when told, wasnt happy, he knows my mother by now and if we want to say, in 3 months change something, she wont let us. its MY wedding and so far ive not had very much choice in it. nothing is going my way.
2 comments:
OH please if you listen to ANY advice in wedding planning listen to this ( this is what gets me through )
It is YOUR wedding. It is NO ONE elses. If they offer to help pay they have a say in 1/3 he guests. That's it.
At the end of it all you do not want to say " I wish we had just done what WE wanted to! "
Plan with no regrets. This if your dad, and the bf's too. Only plan to make the 2 of you happy!
If they don't like something you choose, remind them of their wedding, they chose theirs now you choose yours.
good luck!
Our plans are going perfectly because WE are planning ours. No one else whatsoever!
it's lovely and it's only 4 months away!
goodluck love
this is your day* ( I said dad lol )
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